Ever Changing…Yet Unchanging
Yes, there is something rather contradictory about such a title, but I have come to find this seeming paradox quite true. In our culture at large, we come to value the unchanging, the steady, the constant. I have heard someone say of another, “Oh, Mr. So-in-So…he is as steady as they come; you count on him like you can the sunrise.” That’s a pretty high complement…one I've often wished to overhear being said about me…but probably never will. That’s because I’m not in the ‘steady’ or ‘constant’ crowd. I’m more likely to hear something like, “Oh, Jon…there he goes again…so fickle...chasing another dream….” I am a human…alive...and that means change. Yet, in the midst of change, there ARE some constants. For example, one unchanging aspect of my life is the love I have for my wife. But, how I EXPRESS that love is ever changing. At times, this love is expressed in a very physical way, through a closeness that I experience...